This page is designed to help you as a Christian to be missional and incarnational. I recognize that many of you may be part of an attractional church. As I have said before, attractional churches have their place. And perhaps you are very comfortable there. I am not here to discourage you from that (though you never know what God has in store). If you are in leadership or even if you are not you may have noticed that it is very difficult to get large groups of people to change. Thus the missional church model, while it is appealing, may be practically impossible to lead an established church into. Therefore I have put together this web page to help you to be missional even if your church as a whole is not. This may be the more realistic model with your church acting as a home base where you are refreshed and renewed.)
How can we describe the missional incarnational Christian? Well we describe him / her the same way we describe the missional church.
The missional Christian leaves the building.
The missional Christian is cross-cultural.
The missional Christian is incarnational
What does it mean when I say the missional Christian leaves the building?
What this means simple enough is that the missional Christian is not a Christian just at church only but in all of life – at work, as school, at home, etc. Additionally you may have a specific calling to a specific group of people such as the homeless, the poor, the hungry etc. The missional Christian (like the Missional Church does not base all of his or her outreach on attracting people to church. The missional church goes where the people are rather than waiting for the people to come to them. This should be the same for the missional Christian.
What does it mean when I say the missional Christian is cross-cultural?
We in the church are often insulated and isolated in understanding other faiths and cultures. The missional Christian takes time and effort to understand the culture they are in. There are many ways to do this. You can study. You can go to seminars. You can ask people questions about what they believe and why. While you may not agree about everything you will hopefully come to a better understanding about why people have certain beliefs and practices.
What does it mean when I say the missional Christian is incarnational?
Beyond just understanding the culture the missional Christian enters the culture. They use that culture’s language. They translate their understanding of Christ into a language that the people God is giving them a love for can understand.
But how do you do all of this? Here are some guidelines.....
Know the people God is giving you a love for...
Who is God giving you a love for or a calling to? …..
If it is for your co-workers .. What do they care about? Are there any needs? What things do they do that you can relate to? Here are some books you might findhelpful.
If it is the for the poor .. work at a soup kitchen help at a homeless shelter .. Learn the people story behind the poverty. Break free of biases you may have had. Here are some links you might use.
If it is for inner city issues .. work with an inner city church. Get to understand the culture and how they think. What sense of hope do they have? What rules their thinking? Here are some links you might use.
If it is people of different religious beliefs then ask them what they believe. Ask them to explain their beliefs to you. Understand what they believe and why. Seek to understand, if they are hostile to Christianity, why they are hostile. Here are some links you might use.
If it is prison ministry read books on prison ministry. Find out about injustices. Find out about the horrible things that happen to people in prison. Here are some links you might use.
If it is to the red light district seek to understand the woman who do this. What issues are they dealing with? What poverty are they trying to get out of? What need s do they have? What shame are they caught in? What is their sense of self esteem? How can you show a different life to them? How can you bring hope? Here are some links you might use.
If it is to lgbt individuals read books as listed on the GLBT reference page. Take a survey of glbt individuals and seek to understand their viewpoint. Hint: I already took a survey. See the survey page for the results of that survey. See also this link that takes you to a page that specifically talks about this culture.
Examine your politics, beliefs, and attitudes
What politics beliefs and ideals are blockades to your reaching out to these people or are blockades to them relating to you and thus to Jesus. Here are some examples……
If your outreach is to prisoners on death row you probably would not want to be gung-ho on the death penalty.
If your outreach is to the red light district then you would not want to be eager to put prostitutes in jail
If your outreach is to the poor then you probably would not have the ideaology that they are choosing to be poor or it’s all their own fault.
If your outreach is to people that are immigrants then your attitudes about illegal immigrants had better not be hostile ie you don’t work the border patrol.
If your outreach is to the alcoholic then you are hopefully not politically active in M.A.D.D. (there is nothing wrong with M.A.D.D. – it is just not consistant with helping alcoholics)
And if your outreach is to lgbt individuals then your politics would hopefully not be against lgbt individuals receiving fair treatment in society and you hopefully would not be like those who want to criminalize the actions of lgbt individuals
So .... ask yourself some questions....
What political principles are in conflict with my witness of the love of Christ?
Are there different biblical principles I can apply to my politics that would show the love of Christ?
Here is an example:
Like most conservative Christians I am pro-life. But how do I express that view. Is it with signs of partially aborted babies? Is this the best way? Yes you might “rescue” one mother but how many others might you have offended? I am not judging you in this. I am asking you to assess your ministry.
For years I heard people say that if we were truly pro-life we would care about the mother but I dismissed these critiques. But now I feel differently. The mother is a person too. The questions I might ask myself are:
What am I doing politically and practically to understand the mother that wants to have an abortion.
Do I understand her needs? What am I doing to meet those needs?
What am I doing to help her out of her social economic status and give her hope?
How do my political convictions help her.
What political programs would give her the support she needs?
What can I do personally that would help in this area?
Acting on the answers to these questions will take a lot more time and energy than carrying a sign for a day. It will take a personal investment in the lives of others.
Make every effort to be incarnational...
Paul says in I Corinthains 9:19-22 that he makes all effort to relate to others on their wavelength. To the Jew he is like a Jew. To those not under Jewish law he is like them. To the weak he is also weak. He is all things to all people (not to be a push over) but so that he can communicate the gospel effectively.
This is not just an empty philosophy of the Apostle Paul. This was truly what he practiced. When Paul wanted to speak to his fellow countrymen, the Jews, he spoke to them in the synagogues where they normally met. He spoke to them in their language using illustrations they could understand (See Acts 13: 13-48). He also used his knowledge of the patriarchs in speaking to his fellow Jews to show them about being justified by faith and not by following works of the law (See Romans 4).
But, when Paul was speaking to philosophers he did not use Old Testament stories. He used their own idol to an unknown god to introduce them to Jesus (see Acts 17:16-34) He used things said by their own poets their own philosophers. This is our challenge.
For those times when you witness about Jesus, avoid bible tracts. Put your moment of coming to know Jesus in story form. Know the biblical principles but don’t speak from there. Speak from your heart. Here are some questions your story should answer:
How did you come to know Jesus?
How has knowing Jesus helped you in your life?
Why is knowing Jesus important to you?
What needs to change in you to reach the people God is giving you a love for?
Don’t rely on tradition on this. Much of what we do or don’t do is based on church tradition some of which may have little to do with scripture. So be biblical. Hint: look at tale of two bars. Most church members would find this totally out of line with their denomination. I'll admit it makes me a little nervous. (Obviously if you are a recovered alcoholic this is not the path for you) But Jesus ate with tax collectors and sinners (see Matthew 9:9-11) So much so that he was called a drunkard (see Luke 7:33-35). What box is God calling you out of?
Finally ….. make the change
Take the necessary steps. They may be baby steps at first. They may be missteps but they will be steps. Launch into the culture God has called you to. Love the people God wants you to love. Care about the people God wants you to care about. Expect to make mistakes ... nobody's perfect.
The missional incarnational Christian does not ask how many converts they’ve won or how many arguments they've argued. They ask: ‘Have I shared the love of Christ with someone else today? ‘ Their success is not measured in the number of souls saved but in the people they have touched